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The Brownie Story (Lie)
Image generated by ChatGPT. My daughter knows I like brownies. She likes to make them for me because she knows I like them and it is her way to tell me she loves me. A few nights ago, she made brownies for me after dinner. That night I ate two brownies. The next day I had another one or two brownies. And the rest of the week continued like that until I had finished all of them. I felt terrible about myself and was feeling depressed because I can’t eat what I want and still fi

Kris Tolman, PhD
Apr 234 min read


When the Life You Built Stops Feeling Like Yours
This article explores how many people live according to a “socialized self,” shaped by external expectations, until a disruption reveals a deeper misalignment with their authentic identity. Through this often difficult process of deconstruction, individuals can begin to reconnect with their inner WISE self—an internal compass that guides them toward a more authentic, aligned, and purposeful life.

Kris Tolman, PhD
Mar 255 min read


The Belief System That Quietly Runs Your Life
This article explains that the real reason people don’t pursue the life they want isn’t external circumstances like time, money, or responsibility, but unexamined limiting beliefs rooted in fear that operate beneath conscious awareness. By identifying these beliefs, separating facts from fear-based thoughts, and intentionally choosing a more empowering narrative, individuals can begin aligning with their inner freedom and purpose.

Kris Tolman, PhD
Feb 265 min read
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